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Is it lust or love?
l
12 May 2006 20:38
To change from the political to the emotional a bit;



If you’re swooning over your new sweetie, you may think you’re deeply in love. Friends, however, may say, “You’re just in lust.” Who’s right? Researchers have recently found evidence that people can distinguish between true romance and plain old sexual attraction. For the study, scientists performed MRIs on men and women as they looked upon photos of the person they were in love with and photos of acquaintances (both attractive and less attractive ones). The results showed that the two sets of photos affected the brain very differently: Photos of loved ones triggered more activity on the right side of the brain (an area associated with romantic emotions) than did the other photos; photos of extremely attractive people triggered more activity on the left side of the brain (a hotbed for sexual urges) than did the photos of subjects’ beloveds.

What this suggests, says study author Arthur Aron, Ph.D., a professor of psychology at the State University of New York-Stony Brook, is that the emotions of love and lust are more distinct than we think, and that people can indeed discriminate between the two.
"Hé ! bonjour, Monsieur du Corbeau. Que vous êtes joli ! que vous me semblez beau ! Sans mentir, si votre ramage Se rapporte à votre plumage, Vous êtes le Phénix des hôtes de ces bois."
a
13 May 2006 01:54
Brother I9bi7,
I know I have something to say about this, I just need to think a bit. I’m still trying to sort out what was it that Kais and Laila had, Love or Lust, I’m strongly leaning toward LOVE, just need to read a couple more of Kais’s poems to be sure.
This is really good subject it’s just that you surprised me, because we like to fight here and disagree, and here you are bring us a subject that will make us think about love, and may be show some love toward each other, man! you’re going to have to be patient with us, we have to get use to this…lol
Almot
I
13 May 2006 05:37
I think love is when you overcome your lust....
a
13 May 2006 08:10
OH! that's deep Lalla Ilham, short and sweet...lol
Almot
I
13 May 2006 08:55
Quote
almotanabi
OH! that's deep Lalla Ilham, short and sweet...lol
Almot

ssi almotanabi....don't we say in arabic khayro al kalami ma 9a'lla wa dalla grinning smiley....
l
13 May 2006 08:56
wow Still awake ?

it's one of the two :

a nice friday night party has just been over
or today was a heck of work .. time to lay and get some hours for one self, since tomorrow is "grasse matiné" day


As for me, I a mstuck with my GMAT prep. sad smiley


Well back to the subject, are we really able to tell ourself if we really love a person or it is just attraction. From what I understood (from the text) human being can indeed make the difference up on their mind, as supposed to what I used to know; that love is a continuity to an extended lust ? Right or Wrong ? maybe some of your other thoughs will give us more inputs



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 05/13/2006 08:59 by l9bi7.
"Hé ! bonjour, Monsieur du Corbeau. Que vous êtes joli ! que vous me semblez beau ! Sans mentir, si votre ramage Se rapporte à votre plumage, Vous êtes le Phénix des hôtes de ces bois."
l
15 May 2006 01:54
What a got forwarded .. questionning the reliance of the msg, i think it is pretty true

> > This is hilarious! Be sure to read the warning at
> > the bottom. I didn't change a word! I'm not messing
> > with the Sex Fairy!
> >
> >
> > 1. Sex is a beauty treatment. Scientific tests find
> > that when women make love they produce amounts of
> > the hormone estrogen, which makes hair shine and
> > skin smooth.
> > =============
> >
> > 2. Gentle, relaxed lovemaking reduces your chances
> > of suffering dermatitis, skin rashes and blemishes.
> > The sweat produced cleanses the pores and makes your
> > skin glow.
> > =============
> > 3. Lovemaking can burn up those calories you piled
> > on during that romantic dinner.
> > =============
> > 4. Sex is one of the safest sports you can take up.
> > It stretches and tones up just about every muscle in
> > the body. It's more enjoyable than swimming 20 laps,
> > and you don't need special sneakers!
> > =============
> > 5. Sex is an instant cure for mild depression. It
> > releases endorphins into the bloodstream, producing
> > a sense of euphoria and leaving you with a feeling
> > of well-being.
> > =============
> > 6. The more sex you have, the more you will be
> > offered. The sexually active body gives off greater
> > quantities of chemicals called pheromones. These
> > subtle sex perfumes drive the opposite sex crazy!
> > =============
> > 7. Sex is the safest tranquilizer in the world. IT
> > IS 10 TIMES MORE EFFECTIVE THAN VALIUM.
> > =============
> > 8. Kissing each day will keep the dentist away.
> > Kissing encourages saliva to wash food from the
> > teeth and lowers the level of the acid that causes
> > decay, preventing plaque build-up.
> > =============
> > 9. Sex actually relieves headaches. A lovemaking
> > session can release the tension that restricts blood
> > vessels in the brain.
> > =============
> > 10. A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose.
> > Sex is a natural antihistamine. It can help combat
> > asthma and hay fever.
"Hé ! bonjour, Monsieur du Corbeau. Que vous êtes joli ! que vous me semblez beau ! Sans mentir, si votre ramage Se rapporte à votre plumage, Vous êtes le Phénix des hôtes de ces bois."
 
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